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Disc Envy?

January 24, 2011

I came across an article the other day, that I totally connected with. “No disc, no deal! Album schumalbum!” by Pink Pro Tara of Dixie Pixel Photography. You can see the article for yourself here

Here is her article:
“DISCLAIMER: I know this post will ruffle a few feathers with brides to be. But please, read with an open mind, and just hear me out. It’s something that I need to address. PLEASE, your opinion is welcome. Let your voice be heard in the comment section!

When I started shooting wedding photography, all of my brides and grooms purchased prints and albums. It was pretty rad.

In 2007, I began getting my first inquiries for discs, which I didn’t offer at the time. It was a new concept to me, to just “give” the photos away, a concept that I wasn’t comfortable with. But, I wasn’t booking any weddings. So, like the majority of photographers, I gave up the battle and I began to sell the disc. I instantly started booking weddings again.

In 2008, I sold the disc to well over 75% of my brides and grooms. I sold maybe 3 or 4 albums that year. I was well on my way to the disc revolution.

Recently, I ran into 2 brides from 2009. We’ll call them bride A and bride B. Both bride A and bride B purchased nothing but a disc and my time in their wedding package (also known as a “shoot’n’burn” package). I really thought bride A’s wedding was unique so I made a sample album from her wedding. Once she saw the sample album, she confessed to me that she had not yet made a single print from the disc (may I remind you, a disc for which she paid $1500). Bride B was torn between purchasing the disc or an album, but ended up deciding on the disc in her package. She also confessed to me that she hadn’t printed a single image from her disc, and was still interested in purchasing an album.

Not too long ago I conducted an anonymous survey from brides married in 2009. 100 brides were surveyed, most from the East Tennessee area. An overwhelming (but not surprising) 97% said they would not hire a photographer if the photographer did not sell a disc of the images. Ironically, 70% of those brides had not yet made ANY prints from the disc, nor had they made an album. I should remind you that these brides had been married for 9 months or longer.

So what the heck are the brides doing with the disc?

The overwhelming majority had said that they only thing they had done with the images was post them to social networking sites.

Ouch.

This is kind of a knife through the heart of a wedding photographer. Well, I can’t speak for everyone, but it is for me. I lose sleep over every wedding. The anxiety I feel before every wedding can’t be described because I know I cannot make a single mistake, for if I do, I won’t be forgiven. I go 6 or 7 hours without going to the bathroom because I don’t want to miss anything. I wear ugly shoes and put up with drunk people. I hold heavy equipment to my face for hours. I sit at a computer for weeks, editing and editing and editing. And once I’m done editing, I edit again. And again. All for my blood, sweat and tears to remain forever on a 30 cent disc collecting dust in a desk drawer.

I don’t want to sound like I’m complaining, I really really really love what I do. Really. I’m smiling for the majority of those long hours at my computer. But come on! For the fruits of my labor to remain as magnetic digital data for eternity is just a heart breaking reality I don’t really want to accept. And really? Y’all would pay thousands of dollars for just a nice facebook profile photo? Tsk. Tsk.

And I’m not just shaking my finger at you (and I hold nothing against bride A and bride b, I still love them both madly!). I’m guilty too.

I was married in 2006. All I have is a disc and some negatives of my wedding after I had friends from college photograph my wedding. I thought, I’ll make the prints myself. I’ll make my own album. I’m NOT paying someone else to do it when I can save so much money and do it myself.

It took me two years to hang a photo from my wedding on my wall. I still don’t have a wedding album. I hate myself.

But times have changed for dixie pixel. I now include an album with every package. I include a medium resolution disc too, as well as print credit. Why? Because I KNOW that my brides and grooms will have their photos in print. Photos they can hold. Photos they can touch. Photos they don’t have to log in to see . . .

Meg Wohlford, an architect from Clarksville, Tn, was married in July of 2009. She said, “ . . . It’s too easy to put off making your own album I guess. It’s overwhelming to do it yourself. I’m jealous of your (dixie pixel) brides who have prints/albums so quickly. I’ve only made a few small prints. I definitely regret signing myself up to do all my own printing/albums. It’s not the way to go.”

So before you decide to book that “shoot’n’burn” package, ask yourself if you really NEED hundreds of high resolution images on a disc? Do you plan on hanging 500 or more 30×40 prints in your house? And if it’s the price tag on the prints that the photographers sell that turns you off, ask yourself this: What is the image worth to you? That beautiful iconic image from your wedding that your grandchildren will someday look at with nostalgia in their hearts and longing in their eyes (you know, that feeling you get when you look at that sepia toned image from your grandparents’ wedding?). Is it worth $1.00 from a drug store lab? I didn’t think so.

Wedding photos are heirlooms, and should be treated as such. Thank you for reading.”

If you took the time to read til the end, I thank you.

At Julie Rhodes Photography, we strive to put your artwork on your walls, so you can leave your mark. A little moment in time that will help future generations feel connected. Your moment, your story, your history……..

Ashley & Ron……..

The day was full of excitement and even a little rain,  but…….

rain will only bother you if you let it! They didn’t let it bother them and their portraits rocked!

Tuxes – Bud Gowan Formal Wear
Flowers – Frontier Flowers, Parkhill
DJ – Flashpoint Productions
Hair – The Cutting Edge Riverside Salon, Thedford, Amy Michielsen
Church – Our Lady of Mt. Carmel
Reception – North Middlesex Community Hall
Decorator – Michelle Couto, Strathroy, ON                                                              Limosine Service – Universal Limousine

It is almost every girls dream to be in a wedding, to be the flower girl and dress up as a princess  for a day. This little flower girl was totally adorable, she kept telling the bride she was beautiful. Quite a beauty herself.

One of the questions on our wedding questionnaire is “If you could only have one portrait what would you want it to be?”

The most common answer from the bride. “His face when I am coming down the aisle”

Absolutely beautiful church!

It did rain this day, but with some luck and a few umbrellas we were lucky enough to dodge the big drops and capture some beautiful images.


This here is one of our favourite moments from the day. It was the bride’s Dad turn for his speech. He had been telling her he had something for her ALL day. He had been saving it for 25 years.

What did he have? You can see it below, It is Ashley’s blankie from when she was little. Her mom had thrown it out and her Dad rescued it  and hid it until her wedding day. I admit it, I lost it…. definitely shed a few tears myself over this speech.

The entire day was full of touching and rememberable moments. I am sure Ron won’t soon forget removing this garter!

Great times!

Thanks so much to Ron & Ashley for sharing your incredible love story with us!

What a pleasure to be part of Stephanie & Jeff’s wedding day! They day was perfect, just perfect. This group was going to become a family of five, the kids were involved in the entire day and it was amazing! The big brothers taking care of their little sis. It was so awesome to witness the little special bonding moments. There were a ton, here are just a few!

Bridal Suite: The Retro Suites

Hair & Makeup: Form & Function

Ceremony: St. Paul’s Anglican Church

Flowers : The Purple Pansy

Transportation: Universal Limo

Reception: Club Lentina’s Chatham

Music: Rutherford’s Disc Jockey Service

I have enjoyed getting to know Brandon & Alli so much! They have been together forver! They love to travel, Brandon even asked Alli to marry him in Ireland. AND they totally love each other!

We had a fantastic time during their engagement session, you can see it here.

Having their ceremony in the newly renovated Capital Theatre, downtown Chatham was a beautiful and unique setting for their dream wedding.

Ceremony: Chatham Capital Theatre

Flowers : Pizazz! Florals and balloons

Transportation: Universal Limo

Officiant: Kettle Creek Weddings

Decorations: Royal Creations ~ Sherry King

Reception: The Portugeuse Club

Music: Toast & Jam

This gorgeous bride will be saying “I do” today! Krissy was so excited when she visited the studio for her bridal portraits. (Many of my brides come up to the studio for Bridal Portraits when they have their trial hair and make up)

Anyways Krissy was so excited she just kept singing ” I’m getting married, I’m getting married” The happiness just radiated out of her, she was truely glowing!

This session was a ton of fun, with many laughs and almost a few happy tears. (had to test the make up!)

I am so very, very excited to be capturing the love between Kris & Krissy today!

Congratulations Guys!

Last weekend we had the pleasure of taking a roadtrip for Joanna & Peter John’s Toronto Wedding.


We had an adventure getting to the Historic Distillary District as the Don Valley was closed for the weekend, I didn’t mind the slightly longer drive as it gave me time to ahhhh, and enjoy TO. I love the little shops and resturants.

As they are leaving for their honeymoon today I thought I would put a few images up before they sail away.


Special thanks to Angela for assisting second shooting, as always I had a blast!


Church: Our Lady Queen of Poland
Reception Venue: Paramount Convention Centre
Wedding Coordinator: Weddings by Jenell
Limousine: Prince Limousine

Kelly & Matt say “I do”

November 4, 2009

We were watching the weather all day for Kelly & Matt’s wedding day. A decision had to be made whether the ceremony would be held at Wardsville Golf Course or move to the church. I was looking pretty good and the call was made to have it at the golf course.

It started to drizzle, about an hour before the ceremony, but the decision had been made. Everything would be o.k, and it was more than that. It was amazing!!

Guests gathered around, under trees, some with umbrellas. It wasn’t downpouring, just that annoying heavy mist. It didn’t effect the bride or groom moods at all, these two had envisioned their wedding on the green, and it was about to happen.

Every detail was amazing. Royal Creations did the decorations.

Thanks to Ang from Angela VanHorn Photography for second shooting! As always it was a blast!

This couple and their friends and families glowed all day long ~ I hope you enjoy the slideshow!  Click here to view it: Kelly & Matt say “I do!”

Thanks again Kelly & Matt for including me on your very special day!

Ashleigh & Dave are married!

October 22, 2009

It was a beautiful day for Ashleigh and Dave’s wedding. They had waited a long time for their wedding day, so i was very excited and honoured to be the photographer for the day. The wedding took place at Hart House at the University of Toronto. The ceremony was held out in the gorgeous courtyard and the reception, just through some garden doors. Ashleigh did most of the details herself and everything was perfect! Check out the grooms unique boutonniere.


















I am a couple weeks into the start of my busy wedding season!

Christina & Derek were married a couple of weeks ago in Chatham. We had been going over the details via email for months as they had moved away, a few days before the wedding they were back in Chatham and we met for coffee.

Going through all the details they told me they wanted to have pictures done before the ceremony! I was so excited! This is a photographer’s dream. When a couple chooses to meet before it is sometimes known as a “first glance”, I was able to be present for that very intimate first moment, when this awesome couple saw each other for the very first time on their wedding day. It was awesome, to see the couple instantly relax, the incredible connection between the two of them and we had a ton of time for pictures!!

I was so honored to be included in their special day! Everyone was so extremely warm and welcoming!

Thanks Christina & Derek!

Cheers to life full of happiness!

Flowers: Oak Farms
DJ: Party Time DJ
Hair & Make Up: Modern Trends
Ceremony: Grace Christian Reform Church
Reception & Caterer: Aristos
Wedding dress: Laysieng Couturier